another first date

well i had a first date with harely guy last night
we were supposed to go for a drink but i asked if we could go for a ride instead and he said sure.
he has a beautiful bike and it is so comfortable to ride. we were together for just under two hours. he seems really nice, he is tall and handsome, very intelligent, kind of soft spoken although it started out with me asking about him and why he lived in enfield and he proceeded to tell me where he grew up (he knew my god father when he was in school) to his school and college career and then his work career. it was a short date. he did not ask me one question other than what gear i brought to wear on the bike and if i was comfortable on the bike during the ride.
he seemed at ease enough to tell me all the stuff that he did.
i got a good feeling from him but this was the first first date i ever went on when the guy did not ask for a kiss. he gave me a great hug, actually two cause i asked for another one before he left. i asked how he liked our first date and he said he liked it and and we should go on another ride again someday, i said call me and he said yes mame (he was in the service and he is older than me so i did not get upset with him mame-ing me :)

and that was it
he rode away

i went and met patrick for a beer and bacon (thanks again patrick :)
and when we were leaving the professor called.... hmmmm lets see, i am not that good at public math but he called me back..... 29 hours later when he said he would call back in 5 minutes.
still no email replying to mine and no word on his voicemail (cause i did not answer it) about not calling me back. he said he was calling to see how my son was.

debating at this point calling him back or not. i know that patrick would say call him back and say this is not working out for me.
jean and laurel would probably say not to call back and if he calls again he is not allowed over anymore, only allowed to take me out.
since i am not sure what i will say right now i wont call back right now. because he will either answer or i will have to leave a vm.
i will probably call later and if he asks if i have plans tonight i will tell him yes. and just go from there. leave it back in his court again.
i really do like him as a man but i really dont think he will ever have enough time for me as a boyfriend.

but i may never find that with any one.
patrick always tell me that when i find the right person, the right match, the guy will want to call me all the time and make plans with me and be with me. i just have not found the right person yet.

i sent a breezy little email last night to harely guy saying thank you for the ride, the bike is beautiful (which it is) and comfortable. and that i enjoyed getting to know him too, i ended with talk to you soon, amy

breezy enough i think
i wanted to say thank you again, because that is how i roll.

so today my sick kid has his lesson and then he told colin he would help with his eagle project and then he has to finish packing and if he is feeling well enough he can go to grammy's tonight to watch robin hood.
i have no responsibilities today except getting him where he needs to go.